For many young adults in college or postsecondary programs, the winter break provides some much-needed time off. It provides opportunities to visit and catch up with loved ones, go on fun trips, or just rest and recharge. For young adults at College Internship Program (CIP), it’s possible that the break also included some challenges like regression or fatigue. Each student’s break experience is unique, but they all have one thing in common - winter break eventually comes to an end.
The time leading up to returning to school may evoke a lot of feelings. Whether students are excited, anxious, or anything in between, there are steps they can take to best prepare for the transition back and return to a routine.
Re-establish a sleep schedule
Re-establishing a sleep schedule that aligns with students’ college or program schedules will help create less of a “shock” when they return to a full-time schedule. This also includes student’s night-time and morning routines. When they’re back on campus, do they shower at night or in the morning? How long do they need to sleep, and what time do they have to go to bed to get that amount? When do they need to have breakfast and be dressed to make it to their first module or class? Practicing their morning and night routines will help them feel established, even with new program schedules.
If accessible, students should review their schedules. This can help reduce stress or anxiety about what they will be doing each day. Students can also prepare by having their schedule in a place that is easy to access when they feel unsure, like in an agenda, print out, or calendar app.
Connect with a peer
There may be feelings of anxiety surrounding re-establishing connections with peers once they’re back in their day-to-day routines. Encourage your young adult to reach out to at least one peer before returning so one connection is already made.
Students use a variety of tools and strategies while at CIP to promote success. Whether those tools are apps, visual references, or task lists, it is best to have these ready and accessible before returning to programming. Make sure your young adult has their login information to all their accounts and that they are receiving the right notifications for each tool.
Remind students of previous progress
Sometimes a whole new schedule can seem daunting, and students may be resistant when they see a schedule that implies new expectations and responsibilities. How are they supposed to manage all this and maintain their routine? That is why it is best to use positive language and positive self-talk to review the progress students have made in previous terms. It is important to remind students that they have developed skills and accomplished goals before, and they can do it again.
Connect with their advisor
At CIP, students can talk with their Advisor before their return. It is a great time to discuss how their break went, including any challenges and accomplishments. Advisors can also help students review their goals for the term and explain what to expect for the first few days of programming.
When Students Arrive Back
Once your young adult is back in college or a postsecondary program, continue to use positive language and promote self-care. The transition may be more exhausting than students expect. They may underestimate the energy it takes to restart a routine because, “I’ve done it before.” Parents, you can remind students of any previously identified coping strategies. Simple acknowledgements are okay - reminders that it’s okay to have alone-time or go to bed a little early. It is also important to identify the people in their support network. Is it other family members? Close friends? Advisors or Counselors? Here at CIP, their Advisor is a great place to start, but it may also be helpful to identify one or two other individuals that they can go to for support.
It is a New Year and a new term. The possibilities are exciting, and some simple preparation can help make returning to a routine a positive transition!